Saturday, August 11, 2012

Ramadan day 20 - Sikh Temple


Police Chiefs of several Cities were represented
The massacre of Sikhs at the Gurudwara in Oak Creek, Wisconsin shook the world.  No one would have expected this to happen in a suburb of Milwaukee, Wisconsin. A deranged individual with hatred walked in to the Gurudwara and opened the fire killing 6 and wounding several.

One of the great outcomes of this tragedy is the sacrifice made by Police and Fire men around the world, and most certainly in Wisconsin. The looney gunman Wade Michael Page shot the police officer multiple times, when the other officers rushed to him, he waved them to go inside and take care of the wounded and injured. It’s a tender moment and a moment to salute our officers. When I read it for the first time, I was a cry baby!

Mr. Manmohan Singh, secretary of the Temple acknowledged that in his opening remarks in Punjabi, and I fully understood it and the Punjabi language took me back some 16 years ago, when I was in the Gurudwara shooting for my TV show, and interviewing Gyaniji (Clergy) - the whole interview was in two languages- I was speaking in Hindi/Urdu and he was speaking in Punjabi, the conversation was going on intensely until he used a word that I did not understand, it was an awakening.  We paused and learned that we were speaking in two different languages, and yet we understood it, but not all of it. We laughed it at that time. And today, I understood the speech of Mr. Manmohan Singh in Punjabi, even though, formally I don't know the language.

It is one of the shortest Ceremonies, after the Kirtans (Bhajans/Hymns) singing, Mr. Singh took to the microphone and spoke, peace was emanating from his face and his language. Blessed are the peace makers, said Jesus some 2000 years ago, meaning those whose language and actions bring peace and not conflicts, Prophet Muhammad’s whole life was example of mitigating conflicts and nurturing goodwill, Jesus described it as turning the other cheek, meaning not aggravating the conflict, but finding a solution. Guru Nanak, the fountain head of the Sikh faith was committed to bring peace between different people at that time, indeed, Sikhism started out as an interfaith movement; its basis is Seva, service to humanity.

Manmohan Singh's speech was thoughtful, expressing love and understanding, instead of the typical condemnations, I admired him for that.  People did walk out with a sense of support and a sense of unity rather than rage at the evil man,  that was a remarkable speech and I thank Mr. Manmohan Singh for the same.

The sanctuary was full, people were standing… I must guess that at least a 800 people attended the event.  Everyone came from different walks of life.  I will link some of the stories here. 

An ocean of people lighting each others candle outside Gurudwara
The positive point about the event was the support that all communities expressed in standing up with fellow members of the family of faiths. 

They kept the proceeding short and sweet, some of us were to speak, I am glad they moved without all of us. My role was to speak briefly and acknowledge my Wicca and Native American friends who had joined us.

Part of my speech would have been, “As an American, Indian and a Muslim, I stand by the Sikh community and hope to find sustainable solutions to prevent shameless events like this from happening. As Americans we need to come together to build an America where no one needs to live in apprehension, discomfort or fear of the other.

Blaming will not bring the lives back or solve the problems, pushing the bigots to the corner will not do it, engaging (there is no them, it is all of us) them in a normal day to day life has a chance of nurturing goodwill. 

We need to ask ourselves, am I capable of making friends with fellow Americans from different backgrounds, races, faiths and ethnicities? If I am reluctant, biased or bent on blaming others, then half of the problem is me. If I have it, they have it and I need to begin purging my bias first. More at:

A few great articles were written in commemorating this tragic event and here are the links for you to reflect upon.

We Are All Muslims by Sonny Singh: A Sikh Response to Islamophobia in the NYPD and Beyond

Islamophobia, Sikhophobia and Media Profiling by Simran Jeet Singh

The Gurdwara handled and managed the event very well. I must appreciate every one of the Sikh community and certainly Brother Raj Bhandari and Dr. Harbans Lal (one of my favorite senior mentors) and several others for reaching out to people of different faiths and ethnicities. There are several, but I won’t be able to mention them all, however, I want to appreciate Sister Amina Rab for taking the initiative and doing extensive follow up to bring the Muslims community .

Sikh Muslim relationship

Thanks to Raj for arranging a special room for prayers and arrangement of dates for Iftaar, it was super nice of them to do this.

I have two reflective stories to share about the Sikh-Muslim relationship. I have written the full version of the story; in short, our Sikh and Zoroastrian friends were offended at the first Unity day (9/11/2005) when Muslims walked out on them, when it was their turn to speak. Both the communities held that pain for two years, but thank God, we have great relationships with people of all faiths,  and two years later in 2007 at Crowne Plaza Hotel, Dr. Harbans Lal and Dr. Firdosh Mehta shared their anguish with me and I couldn’t bear their pain and dug out for answers. Muslims did walk out on them.

It was not because the Sikhs and Zoroastrian were speaking, but because it was the time for evening Prayers. Many a Muslims pray five times a day and on precise moments - for example today’s schedule is  5:34 AM, 1:45 PM, 5:30 PM, 8:19 PM and 10:00 PM. After hearing the reason, Dr. Lal and Dr. Mehta felt relieved and wished they had clarified this two years ago, instead of carrying it.

As Jews observe the Sabbath, Christians do theirs, Muslims fulfill their obligation to God. Even if George Bush ( he was president in 2007)  were speaking, a few Muslims will go for their prayers. This was relayed to the speaker Panel that included people of 13 faiths, and 6 Mayors and other dignitaries

Mayor Pat Evans and Daisy Khan were the speakers, and Mayor Evans said, I am perfectly alright if Muslim go to prayers, God is first. Dr. Harbans Lal, Dr. Mehta and I were relieved knowing the truth and communicate the same to the public. 

So, today, Dr. Lal and Raj Bhandari were fully aware that Muslims had to break the fast at 8:19 and were ready to tell the story. Most of the thirty some of us were sitting in the first four rows. On the other hand, what I admire about Brother Suleman, Imam Yahya, Brother Azhar Azeez and other leaders of the community was that they sat patiently beyond till 8:23, a window to go to do the Iftaar, and a room they had arranged to pray the Maghrib ( evening) prayers.

The Iftaar was perfect - Lentil, Rice and Roti, all home cooked and delicious, and of course the Sevian (vermicelli) in the Shir Khurma (bioled in milk and sugar with nuts).

350 years old Misunderstanding cracked

There are myths created about each other whether it is Hindu-Sikh, Jews-Muslim or any combination. Most of them go unquestioned for centuries, one such myth was King Aurangzeb's attitude towards Sikhs - based on misinterpreting a verse from Quraan and a word from Guruji Nanak. Dr. Dhaliwal of Nashville, Tennessee and I have cracked that myth after 350 years. It is historic. as Ramadan proceeds, I will share similar stories with Jews, Christians, Hindus, Buddhists and others. 

This misunderstanding has played havoc during partition of India and Pakistan, the human brutality came to the fore - Sikhs-Muslims-Hindus have mercilessly slaughtered each other in the trains. We have to heal that, and the greatness to communities comes when they realize that their pain was as much as others pain.  Neither Guru Nanak, Sri Krishna nor Prophet Muhammad authorized them to do that, it were ordinary men acted out of anger of displacement. No one needs to be blamed. Thank God, the process has begun, the Hindus and Sikhs have restored a few dilapidated mosques and turned them over to Muslims,  and in Pakistan the Muslims have restored the Krishna Temple in Lahore and have maintained the birth place of Guru Nanank in Nankana.

The good part of the above story is that many young Sikhs responded to my posting on facebook with,  "where did this come from?" I am glad, the seniors had kept the difficult part of the history to themselves and did not pass it on to the youth, at least in America.

Huffington Post - Sikhs and Muslims can come together on Guru Nanak's birthday

We all need to share little stories like this and reconnect with all humanity without bias. We must stand up for each other.

Each mosque and each tradition is uniquely different.  Insha Allah, I will do my best to keep that uniqueness intact, however, it is not easy to write different things each day for the whole month.  If you wish to get a complete essence of this, please read for the whole month. 
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Planned Muslim Response to Qur'an Burning by Pastor Jones on September 11 in Mulberry, Florida

August 19, 2013| Dallas, Texas

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We as Muslims plan to respond to pastor Terry Jones' planned burning of 3000 copies of Quran on September 11, 2013 in positive terms.

Our response - we will reclaim the standard of behavior practiced by the Prophet concerning “scurrilous and hostile criticism of the Qur’an” (Muhammad Asad Translation Note 31, verse 41:34). It was "To overcome evil with good is good, and to resist evil by evil is evil." It is also strongly enjoined in the Qur’an in the same verse 41:34, “Good and evil deeds are not equal. Repel evil with what is better; then you will see that one who was once your enemy has become your dearest friend.”

God willing Muslims will follow the divine guidance and pray for the restoration of Goodwill, and on that day many Muslim organizations will go on a “blood drive” to save lives and serve humanity with kindness.

We invite fellow Americans of all faiths, races, and ethnicities to join us to rededicate the pledge, “One nation under God”, and to build a cohesive America where no American has to live in apprehension, discomfort or fear of fellow Americans. This event is a substitute for our 10th Annual Unity Day Celebration ( held in Dallas, but now it will be at Mulberry, Florida.

Unwittingly Pastor Jones has done us a favor by invigorating us by his decision to burn nearly 3000 copies Quran on September 11, 2013. Obviously he is not satisfied by the notoriety he garnered by burning one Qur'an last year.

As Muslims and citizens we honor the free speech guaranteed in our constitution. We have no intentions to criticize, condemn or oppose Pastor Terry Jones' freedom of expression. Instead, we will be donating blood and praying for goodness to permeate in our society.

We plan to follow Jesus Christ (pbuh), a revered prophet in Islam as well as Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) – that of mitigating the conflicts and nurturing good will for the common good of the society.

We hope, this event and the message will remind Muslims elsewhere in the world as well, that violence is not the way. Muslims, who react violently to senseless provocation, should realize that, violence causes more violence, and besmirches the name of the religion that we hold so dear. We believe that Prophet Muhammad was a mercy to the mankind, and we ought to practice what we believe and preach. We must not insult Islam by the negative reactions of a few.

We can only hope it will bring about a change in the attitude of the followers of Pastor Jones, and in the behavior of those Muslims who reacted violently the last time Pastor sought notoriety – We hope this small step towards a bridge to peaceful coexistence would propel us towards building a cohesive society.

Like most Americans a majority of Muslims quietly go about their own business, but it is time to speak up and take positive action instead of negative reaction. May this message of peace and goodwill reverberate and reach many shores.

Lastly, we appreciate the Citizens of Mulberry, Florida, Honorable Mayor George Hatch, City Commissioners, police and Fire Chiefs for handing this situation very well. This will add a ‘feather of peace’ in the City’s reputation. We hope Mulberry will be a catalyst in showing the way in handling conflict with dignity and peace.

We thank the Media for giving value to the work towards peace rather than conflict.


Thank you.


The people in Dallas are making an effort to understand and clean their own hearts first, when we are free from bias, it would be easy to share that with others. Islam teaches us in so many ways to "respect the otherness of others" and it is time we find simple practical ways of doing it.